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    ARE MEN BECOMING AN “ENDANGERED SPECIES” ?

    As a Notary , I have the opportunity to witness many young couples executing  ante nuptial contracts to regulate their marital regime. It pains me to see so many of the men shrinking back and allowing the woman to steer the conversation and make major decisions pertaining to their future. This got me thinking about the trend that is evident in our society today where women are becoming more and more dominant. Feminists would be quite pleased with this trend but ironically, women are lamenting about the lack of real men in the world. Songs like “I need a Hero” by Bonnie Tyler has been replaced by “Hero” from Mariah…

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    WHICH MIRROR IS YOUR DAUGHTER LOOKING INTO?

    Most of us have daughters , grandaughters or nieces. If not, there surely is a little girl in your life that  you just adore. When these girls were born, there was much excitement, frills, balloons and bows. The splendour and splash of a little princess on the horison, is seldom eclipsed. Moms have only thoughts of their daughters being successful, happy , healthy and fulfilled. Our little girls are then introduced to life , the way we see or experience it, as well as the way the world represents it. There is no doubt that our experiences, good or bad, colours our  “education” of our daughters. We naturally do not…

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    I DON’T KNOW ANYMORE

    MAKING SENSE OF IT ALL How many of us are constantly trying to figure life out or how we are going to manage something? Some of us are always  busy trying to “make sense” of it all whilst trying to survive the peaks and valleys. We are churning things around in our minds all the time and we will not rest until we can see a way. We often won’t let a thing go and after exacerbating it, we finally admit (though reluctantly) that,  “I don’t know anymore”. During the course of my working day Wednesday, I had a meeting with a gentleman who is originally from India. As is the…